Life is so short, someone you love can have their last breath today, I wish that everyone could see and be thankful for life because in a heartbeat it can be gone. Don’t spend your life judging and condemning people we are created to love people as Christ loves us. Watch out for the way you speak to people and what you say , words are sharper than a blade Jesus saved people out of love.People cannot change when they are condemned or judged it will make them more angry and comfortable with the lives they are living. Take same sex attraction for-instance at LGBT-Q prides there are people that are Christians from churches that scream out hate and condemnation, we are there to help the broken and lost and show them the love of Jesus. I was one of the people living in that lifestyle until I met Jesus I felt His love and grace upon my life. So many people living in sin want a breakthrough out of their sin but the way they are treated makes them hate Jesus because they see who and what His followers stands for. Its heartbreaking to see so many broken people that don’t want to ask for help because they are condemned and judged because of their sin.When you help people in love and tell them that Jesus has much more for them you would start seeing a change in them.

In my situation everyone I knew showed love towards me and accepted me for who I am to a point that I wanted to know who Jesus really is, I had this battle with my mind and my heart and I didn’t know what to do I was in a relationship at that point with a great person and the voice of the Holy Spirit kept calling me even when I tried to silence it “saying well this is who I am “and “that is how it is going to be”. I started praying and asking God if this is His will the relationship will work out but if it is not His will she must break up with me and if she does I will be faithful to Him all of my days and surrender everything completely , once you come to a point in your life and ask God to do His will everything changes. The next morning she broke up with me and I knew this was God and for that I was thankful because I had a breakthrough of living this lifestyle of heartache and confusion. I surrendered completely, my life now is anxiety free , depression free and I am set free from something I have been struggling with since I was a little girl, I found my Identity in Jesus and He is the only one that can completely fill you. If I was judged and condemned by people who are Christians I would still be living in that lifestyle.

God tells us in His Word that the tongue has incredible power. We can use our tongue to bring blessings and life or curses and death. The saying “sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me” is simply not true. Our tongues can be the most difficult thing to control and leave us with great regret if we use our words to hurt. There is hope! The Bible tells us that with the help of the Holy Spirit we can have power and control over our tongue.


Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

Think before you speak as your words are knifes, and it brings more destruction but when you talk in love you can help anyone in need.
Jesus is love and love is truth when you are a christian living this lifestyle I pray that you get breakthrough over your thoughts and your heart and that you accept the truth of Jesus because He wants you and He loves you He has so much for for your life than you can Imagine.Parents if you have a child struggling with SSA you should not stop praying, my mom never gave up on me and I never even knew that she was praying for me ,your prayers are powerful.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.

What I love is that you were washed,sanctified and justified in the name of Jesus and by the spirit of our God.

Live is short be careful how you approach and treat others as condemnation and judgement never helped anyone as love saves all. Love others because it might be too late and you can be the reason for their destruction.o one is perfect and all sin, we need a savior.


Romans 3:23 For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God


I pray for every person in this lifestyle that you seek God and His presence and that confusion will go away because it is only from the enemy and that God has called you for so much more, Parents I pray that you would not condemn or judge your child but that you pray for them and seek Gods greatness in all.I pray this in the Name of Jesus Christ.

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