We cannot live by our own understanding but only in His understanding. When you are a follower of Jesus Christ your heart becomes like Christ,your eyes see the impossible what God can do and you see people struggling to get out of bondage that has been put there by the enemy.Everyday is a struggle and with everything happening in the world of today everyone needs a savior. The amazing thing in the book of Romans is that God chooses us first before we choose to follow Him.He has an amazing calling on your life and He will make you see wonderful things. Jesus was gentle patient and understanding and when He taught it was with authority and love. When we as Christians help people we have to have the same characteristics as Jesus and doing everything out of love. We cannot help others by condemning them that is not the heart of our Lord and Savior, we can help them in correcting them of their doings. See the below scripture Paul talks about sexual immortality.
I Corinthians 5:4-5 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when you are gathered together, along with my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
What it clearly states is to correct them by their doings will save their soul. So this is a must but do so in love and authority that you received by the Holy Spirit, you can correct other Christians in a way of helping them see what they are doing.
So not only should Christians correct other believers, they should also discipline them based on those corrections. Jesus says in John 7:24, “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.It states you cannot judge by a persons appearance.
Those who quote Matthew 7:1 as evidence that Christians should never judge need to read the context of that verse. Yes, Jesus says, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged,” but he goes on to say, “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”In other words, don’t apply a double-standard and judge someone for a sin you’re equally, or even more guilty, of committing. Instead, Jesus says, “first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” So the solution isn’t to refrain from judging; it’s to fix yourself so you can help fix others.
What helped me in my journey was no one judged me of having same sex attractions and living a homosexual lifestyle but I was told that it is wrong and my parents told me that they would love me either way. The way they confronted me about it made me feel loved and accepted not judged and condemned, that led to the decision that Jesus has so much more for me and that I want a relationship with Him. Judge people in love and it will change them on the inside, I follow Jesus because He showed me what love really is and who He is. Once you found your Identity in Christ you are changed. I dont have any attractions towards men and I also dont have any attractions towards women anymore ,I’m just living for Jesus and through His grace I was saved and I dont want it another way.
Have a blessed day and love Jesus with all your Heart.